Donna Ambler Davis, P.C.Donna Ambler Davis, P.C.2024-03-11T13:42:08Zhttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/feed/atom/WordPress/wp-content/uploads/sites/1401946/2020/04/cropped-Favicon-32x32.pngOn Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=482592024-03-07T14:42:16Z2024-03-11T13:42:08ZRetaliating
A common parental alienation tactic is lying about and trash-talking the targeted parent. Doing the same and talking badly about the alienating parent can be an enticing idea, but giving in only damages the targeted parent's image and hurts the children. Speaking negatively about the other parent in front of the children can exacerbate feelings of alienation and create further conflict. It is important to refrain from badmouthing the other parent and instead focus on fostering a positive relationship between them and both parents.
Reacting emotionally
It is natural to feel hurt and upset when experiencing parental alienation, but reacting emotionally can escalate the situation. It is important to remain calm and composed when dealing with the other parent and focus on finding constructive solutions.
Disregarding court orders
It may be instinct to try and keep children out of the damaging environment created by parental alienation, but giving into that instinct can cause legal troubles and resentment from children. Parents need to adhere to court orders and seek counsel before acting.
Giving up
Alienated children may act cold, rude, resentful, disrespectful and hostile towards the alienated parent. They may blame him or her for everything without listening to reason and act out. They may even express feelings of hatred and disgust. Parents need to remember that their children behave this way as a result of manipulation. Giving up may be easy, but it will only confirm the negative thoughts in their children's minds and damage them further.
Parental alienation can have a serious impact on children and cause them to behave poorly towards the target of the alienation. By remaining patient and reaffirming their love, parents can help their children through the alienation. They can also ask the court to investigate and potentially seek legal action.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=482502024-02-23T19:19:14Z2024-02-26T19:19:06ZCommunicate with the co-parent
Start by talking openly with the other parent. Sometimes, misunderstandings or lack of communication can lead to concerns about the use of child support money. Have a calm conversation to seek clarification on how the funds are being used. This might resolve the issue without the need for legal involvement.
Document financial transactions
Keep detailed records of all financial transactions related to child support. Maintain a record of your payments, receipts and any communication about how the money is being used. This documentation can be important evidence if legal action becomes necessary.
Involve the child support enforcement agency
Contact North Carolina's child support enforcement agency to address concerns about misuse. Provide them with the necessary information and documentation, and they may investigate the matter to ensure the child's needs are being met.
File a motion with the family court
In more serious cases of financial mismanagement or neglect, you might need to file a motion with the family court to modify the child support order. The court will consider the child's best interests and may adjust the support arrangement accordingly.
Always prioritize your child's well-being. When possible, foster a cooperative approach in resolving conflicts related to child support. Ultimately, a collaborative effort between co-parents can ensure the best outcomes for the child's future.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=481952024-02-05T20:17:08Z2024-02-12T20:16:15ZAssessing and valuing assets
The first step in a high asset divorce is to identify and evaluate all marital assets, including real estate, investments, businesses and valuable possessions. Make sure you have a solid understanding of any financial matters that could come up during your divorce. Focus on the potential long-term impact of property division. Also, remember that splitting assets in a high-asset divorce can have significant tax consequences. Make sure you understand the tax implications of various settlement options and make informed decisions.
If you or your spouse own a business, its valuation and division can be particularly challenging. Carefully assess the value, determine ownership rights and explore options such as buyouts or co-ownership.
Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements
Having a well-drafted prenuptial or postnuptial agreement can streamline the divorce process in high asset cases. According to the North Carolina Judicial Branch, prenuptial agreements can outline how to divide assets, spousal support and other issues. However, these agreements must meet certain requirements, such as each party signing.
Navigating a high asset divorce requires careful consideration of various financial matters. By focusing on these topics, you can protect your financial interests and pave the way for a smoother divorce process.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=481932024-01-26T04:07:44Z2024-01-30T04:07:38Z1. Academic excellence
Per CNBC, research shows a positive correlation between active fatherhood and academic success. Children with involved fathers tend to perform better academically than those without. Active fathers often help foster a positive attitude towards education, setting high expectations and providing essential support in homework and other educational activities. The presence of a committed father figure contributes to a conducive learning environment. This, in turn, enhances a child's motivation and enthusiasm for academic pursuits.
2. Social and emotional well-being
Active fathers also contribute to a child's social and emotional well-being. Their involvement in a child's life fosters a sense of security and stability. This often leads to enhanced emotional intelligence and social skills. Children with engaged fathers often exhibit better communication abilities, problem-solving skills and higher levels of empathy. This emotional support serves as a foundation for healthy relationships with peers and adults, creating a positive ripple effect on the child's life.
3. Positive behavioral outcomes
Having an active father also leads to positive behavioral outcomes in children. Fathers who actively participate in their child's upbringing contribute to the establishment of clear boundaries and consistent discipline. This guidance and structure provide children with a sense of responsibility and accountability, promoting positive behavior both at home and in other social settings. Active fathers serve as role models, shaping their children's values and attitudes. This can lead to reduced behavioral issues and improved decision-making skills.
Recognizing and appreciating the multifaceted benefits of active fatherhood contributes to the holistic development of children, helping set the stage for their success later in life.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=481912024-01-13T00:13:12Z2024-01-16T00:12:17ZCustody and visitation
Clearly outline arrangements for child custody and visitation. Specify the agreed-upon schedule for spending time with each parent, ensuring consistency in the children's routines and minimizing disruptions.
Educational expenses
Specify the division of costs for schooling, extracurricular activities and any related expenses. This ensures that the children's educational journey remains uninterrupted.
Healthcare
Include the management of healthcare and insurance costs for the children. Consider medical, dental and any other related expenses, along with plans in the event of unexpected illnesses or serious health concerns.
Financial support
Outline the financial support each parent will contribute towards the children's well-being. This includes regular monetary support for everyday expenses, ensuring that both parents contribute to meeting their children's routine needs.
Inheritance and assets
Address planning for inheritances and assets to support the children. Specify the provisions for any financial legacies, ensuring future security.
Communication
Establish a framework for communication and decision-making regarding the children's upbringing. This includes major decisions such as education, healthcare and any other significant aspects of their lives.
Dispute resolution
In the event of disagreements, establish a mechanism for dispute resolution that prioritizes the children's best interests. This could involve mediation or another agreed-upon method for resolving conflicts.
A 2022 survey found that 35 percent of unmarried adults think they will sign a prenup before getting married. This kind of preparation is becoming more important in modern relationships. If a couple plans to have kids, a prenuptial agreement makes sure both parents agree on how to take care of the children if they get divorced.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=481892024-01-03T01:56:53Z2024-01-03T01:56:53ZUnderstanding the process
In North Carolina, the Child Support Services division offers various payment methods to make child support payments easier, including credit card payments. To initiate the process, you need to visit the official website of the North Carolina Child Support Services and follow the prompts to access the payment portal. Once there, select the option to pay by credit card and provide the necessary information, such as your credit card details and the amount.
It is important to note that parents pay a service fee when making credit card payments. The CSS states that a 2.5% service fee applies to credit and debit card child support payments. This fee is separate from a parent’s child support obligations.
The benefits of using a credit card
North Carolina Child Support Services accept major credit cards, such as Visa, Mastercard, Discover and American Express. Paying child support with your credit card offers several advantages. First, it provides a convenient and secure method for making payments, allowing you to avoid the hassle of writing checks or handling cash. Additionally, paying with a credit card may provide you with additional financial flexibility. You can choose to pay the child support amount over time by managing your credit card payments.
Paying child support with your credit card can streamline the payment process, offering convenience and flexibility. This can make it easier to stay current on child support payments and avoid serious penalties.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=481872023-12-19T02:23:37Z2023-12-19T02:23:37ZGrandparent rights
Grandparents play a vital role in their grandchildren's lives. However, parents may sometimes restrict their access to the grandkids. To protect this relationship, North Carolina includes grandparent rights in its general statutes. Note that the law does not grant visitation rights to biological grandparents in most adoption scenarios.
Criteria for visitation
Grandparents may petition the court for visitation rights in specific circumstances. If the parents separate or divorce, or if one parent has passed away, a grandparent can seek visitation. Additionally, the court may consider visitation rights if the child has lived with the grandparent for a long time or if there is a custody dispute.
The “best interests” standard
State courts prioritize the child's best interests when deciding on grandparent visitation. This standard aims to safeguard children's physical, emotional and psychological well-being. Considerations include a child's relationship with the grandparents and his or her preferences.
Navigating the process
Establishing visitation rights requires providing evidence to support the request. It is important to show involvement in the child's life and a positive effect on the child. Willingness to help the child have a good relationship with his or her parents is also key.
Break-ups are challenging for most families. While separations and divorces can be divisive, there is an established path to securing visitation rights for grandparents in North Carolina.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=481812023-12-07T21:58:10Z2023-12-07T21:58:10ZStability and routine
Maintaining a set schedule between households can help reduce stress and uncertainty. Consistency in daily routines, such as mealtimes, bedtime and school activities, provides a sense of security for children.
Open and honest communication
Children need to feel heard and understood during this transition. Encouraging them to express their feelings without fear of judgment is important. Both parents should create an environment where children feel comfortable sharing their emotions.
Emotionally supportive environment
Divorce can bring up a range of emotions including confusion, anger or sadness. Children may require empathy and reassurance that these emotions are valid and normal. Love, encouragement and stability can help them navigate these feelings more easily.
Consistent parental involvement
Children benefit from maintaining meaningful relationships with each parent. According to a study, roughly 46% of children evaluated suffered post-traumatic stress symptoms when there are high levels of conflict during a divorce. Parents should support their child's relationship with the other by avoiding negative remarks or actions.
Flexibility and adaptability
As children grow and circumstances change, the custody plan may need adjustments. It is best to be open to adapting the arrangement to fit the children's needs and preferences.
Divorcing with children extends beyond the end of a marriage and requires a restructuring of family dynamics. Understanding their needs can contribute to a healthier and more positive experience for the children involved.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=481792023-11-20T20:23:07Z2023-11-20T20:23:07ZLegal obligations
Due to presumptive paternity, a married man will have all legal obligations as the father of any child born during the marriage. He will have to provide financial support to the child and uphold the child's well-being.
Importance
The reason for presumptive paternity is to ensure a child has two parents to provide care. It prevents a husband from denying the responsibility of a child without going through a legal process to disprove paternity.
Issues
In cases where paternity is in question, the presumptive father can request genetic testing to determine if the child is biologically his. Once he has evidence disproving paternity, he can take further legal steps to sever his parental responsibilities.
Single mother situations
In a situation where the mother is single, there could still be a presumptive father. If a man acknowledges paternity and acts as the father of the child, the law can presume his legal obligation. Typically, this occurs when the father signs a document recognizing paternity.
Presumptive paternity seeks to benefit children. It also simplifies parental rights for fathers as they automatically have rights when they are the spouse of the mother and do not have to go through a legal process to establish these rights.]]>On Behalf of Donna Ambler Davis, PChttps://www.makingyouwholeagain.com/?p=481772023-11-07T15:40:55Z2023-11-07T15:40:55ZFailure to prioritize the child’s best interests
The primary objective of child custody mediation is to establish a custody arrangement that serves the best interests of the child. However, some parents may let their emotions or personal desires take precedence over their child's welfare. This can lead to contentious negotiations and an outcome that does not align with what is best for the child.
Inflexibility
Being inflexible and unwilling to compromise can be detrimental in mediation. Parents should be open to discussion and willing to make concessions in order to reach an agreement that is fair to both parties and in the child's best interest.
Lack of communication
Failing to communicate effectively with the other parent or mediator can result in misunderstandings, misinformation and an overall unproductive mediation process. Parents should be willing to engage in open and constructive dialogue.
Overlooking the child's needs
In the midst of a divorce or separation, parents might inadvertently overlook their child's emotional, social and developmental needs. It is important to consider the child's age, school schedule and extracurricular activities when crafting a custody plan that minimizes disruption.
Using children as pawns
Some parents use their children as tools to gain an upper hand in mediation. This harmful tactic can negatively impact the child's emotional well-being and create a hostile atmosphere during the mediation process.
Not adhering to agreements
The divorce rate in North Carolina is 3.2 divorces per 1,000 people. Many of these splits involve children and mediation. Once parents reach an agreement, they need to follow it. Failing to do so can lead to more legal battles and distress for the child.
Child custody mediation is a significant step in ensuring the well-being of children. It can set the foundation for a healthy dynamic for years to come.]]>